http2: increase default window sizes

Merged
MC
3mo ago
+96-66

Increase the default HTTP/2 stream window from 64KB (65535) to 4MB
(4194304) and the default local connection window to 32MB (33554432).

The default 64KB window limits throughput on high-latency connections
to window_size / RTT. With a 250ms RTT, throughput is limited to
256KB/s. The new defaults improve throughput to 16MB/s (128Mbps)
for the stream window and 128MB/s (1Gbps) for the connection window.

Fixes https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/38426