#24010 fix(cpp-httplib-server): handle missing optional JSON properties

Fixes #23991

This fixes a crash in cpp-httplib-server generator when optional JSON properties
are missing in the request payload.

Previously, NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE was used which does not safely handle
missing fields.

Now replaced with custom to_json/from_json using:

• j.at() for required fields
• j.contains() check for optional fields

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Summary by cubic

Prevents crashes in the cpp-httplib-server generator when request JSON omits optional fields by switching to explicit to_json/from_json handling. Generated servers now safely ignore missing optional properties.

• Bug Fixes
  • Replaced NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE with friend to_json/from_json in model headers.
  • Required fields use j.at(...).get_to(...).
  • Optional fields use j.contains(...) and null check before get_to(...).