feat: add cross-pod RTP capabilities handling

Merged
HA
2mo ago
+294-19

Closes: #65


Summary by cubic

Adds cross-pod RTP capabilities handling so getRouterRtpCapabilities works even when the room lives on another pod. Previously, the request failed with a 409 error; now it's forwarded via Redis, the owning pod returns the capabilities, and the original socket gets the ack. Includes a timeout and error handling, a new getRtpCapabilites command handler in podConnection.ts, and documentation. Closes #65.